People Focus Two: Vlad

If there is an epitome of friendship, then my friend Vlad's friendship is one of them. We met at a church function and became part of a group of Filipino scholars studying in Thailand. 

He spoke in a gentle manner whilst all-knowing about the affairs of the world. He was into politics and until now, he is. 

He is my complete opposite. While I am shy and introverted, he is the sociable and all friendly kind of person. While I allow myself to disappear in a crowd, he is the one that stands out.

I remember spending birthdays together since we were born on the same month. We would visit our doctor friends and have simple get togethers at their university's laboratory. Our weekly eating spree by the sidewalks were always fun and germ-filled. We even embarked on trips to Kanchanaburi and Chiang Mai spending the little money we had to buy matching vests. We even visited a zoo dressed in our office garments. It wasn't  the expenses or the tight budget, it was the growing friendship that was most invaluable.

Vlad and I had petty arguments regarding friendships and there had been bouts of jealousy since we were all immature at that time. But with all these differing opinions, our friendship was made stronger. 

Vlad molded me in many ways. He is God loving and God fearing and his devotion to the Lord is overpowering. He guided me in my daily devotion. He showed me how to be a good friend. He exposed me to diligence as he is very scholarly. Knowing some years ago that he was finishing his graduate studies in Taiwan and later on learning that he was at Harvard University, what a feat!  

Vlad taught me valuable lessons about friendship. His admirable traits are deeply missed. And for almost sixteen years of not seeing him, I miss him big time. 

Happy birthday buddy!